Handling lost love? Yourself. Belief. Unstoppable.

You leave your future. You fall into somebody else’s arms. Unfortunately because you are hurting, missing, lonely, sad, angry, you fall for them fast and hard. You fall for them because they catch you. They catch you and save you from tumbling into a destructive nothing. Your mind deceives you. You think you've found “it”. The person who is going to look after you, make you laugh, make you feel like you used to, but better. This person is your new perfection. Your mind makes it seem that they make you're their first priority. Makes you think they feel the exact of what you are feeling. That they love to be around you, to hold you, to smell you and feel your warmth. That your opinions and ideas have reason. All you want to do is make them happy and for them to be happy. You think that all the bad is over. What happened before is just a memory, still there, but a memory. This is your new start. Your new chance at love. Your first chance at love.

Your mind is also your worst enemy. Your mind is telling you that you are also feeling what you think they are feeling. You're not though. What you are feeling is just sadness. You're lonely. This is how your mind finds a way to cope, through finding somebody else; somebody else to make you feel special and worth while. To make you feel loved.

After you realize that it was all in your mind, you see you never would have wanted it, you see you never really needed it. You are strong enough, but it just happened, you couldn't have helped it.

We all need people around us. We all need a support system. Some of us need many people, some of us just need that one. These people make us feel worthy of others, make us feel wonderful and unstoppable.

With or without these people you are unstoppable. 

The most powerful thing in this world is a person who believes they are unstoppable. The person who believes in themselves.

All the people that come into our lives, come for a reason. They come into our lives with a purpose.

He came to my life to make me realize I needed more. He came into my life to make me realize I deserved more. He came into my life to make me realize I had fallen for him. She came into my life to make me realize that no matter what happened, how ever much I fucked up, she would always be there to help me get back up, just as I her.

People leave our lives for more or less the same reason, because they are no longer needed in our lives. He left my life because we grew apart, he needed more, I needed less. He left my life because I needed more and he needed less. He came into my life because I needed somebody as he needed somebody. He left my life because he was no longer the somebody I needed.

Life is really like a tree, branches grow in their own directions, branches die so other branches can carry on, new branches start because they are needed by the trunk.

We must all just remember that we are that trunk. The branches are all parts of life. Never look at the dead branches as regrets but as memories and lessons. Never look at the new branches with hate, but with new chances and dreams.